You are so right! I share your feelings. We are in that in between place with my husband. Not ready for memory care, needs more attention than skilled nursing can provide. We're fortunate that we can afford in home care but he is resistant to allowing anyone but me help him in any way. People say I should put my foot down and tell him this is how it has to be. But they don't have to deal with the anger I see when no one else is around. Also, tears and begging. It is heart wrenching. I am thankful for the good days but walking on egg shells is exhausting.

Sorry for the rant but there's been very little sleep here for a few days.