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I came to the same realization that all the moaning and groaning didn't change the fact that it's got to come out. Unlike you, though, despite that I'm very sad at what I may stand to lose. I realize the lack of logic in that because I could be just fine, but I also know I'm losing half my nerve bundles and it's hard to just ignore what may come to pass.

In a few months, when this is done and behind me I may have a very similar take as you do, but it's tough to come to grips at this very moment.

Thank you for sharing with me.

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Well it certainly sucks that you have soooooo much time until your surgery. Way to much time for the brain to come up with all the negative stuff. I'm one of those who don't do well knowing too much. For some reason I don't really think about my forever cancer, my focus is always on those darn side effects of my forever meds. I'm trying to be helpful here. This is a wonderful site with so many people just trying to help us all get along on our journey. Pick and choose what you read, see something good news for you, jump on it and take the good feeling that comes with it. I didn't have to go through what you are. I went in for pain in my leg and jumped right up to stage 4 in the bones. Didn't really have any wait time. I do wish you all the best on your journey, just know that you can do this. Fight like all get up.