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@dbeshears1 - Debbie, I know where you're coming from when it comes to others wondering why I now walk with a cane. It does surprise me how many people never heard of peripheral neuropathy. The usual comment is something like....oh, isn't that some kind of numbness in the feet? Where do you start? I try not to get engaged into a conversation about PN. I will normally answer with a simple yes. And I change the subject. Others may not want to discuss something they know little about. A few times I've tried to give some details and the why will then come up which many of us can't even explain. I think most people don't want the details; all they want to know if that you're OK. As you said some are curious and well meaning. In spring of this year, I ran into someone I haven't seen for a while and noticed my cane. He asked what happened. I said I hurt my ankle. He is the type with many questions, and he said that's too bad, and he kept walking. It worked! Stay well and keep moving. Ed

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Ed - Sense of humor is so important! I might try that line some time. I live in a complex with a clubhouse and by being on the social events committee, I run (waddle) into people at different frequencies. It seems there are more infrequent (monthly) run-ins who greet me with “Aren’t you better yet?” I just politely brush it off with saying I have something that won’t get better. This is a 55+ Community…. There are more people with hip & knee replacements or Pickleball injuries than any of us can keep up with, even those of us who still have good memory 😊 So I don’t blame folks for thinking I’m like the majority of folks here with something fixable.

The old comment on that one was don't ask someone how they are. THEY might tell you iv pn by the way it'was an unknown to me b 4 2019 James ireland