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I don’t see anyone mention the painful ride home the day after surgery. I just remember how painful it was sitting in a seat, I was able to lay back as far as it would go, didn’t help. I lay down in the back of the car across the seats. I didn’t have padding and the seat was uncomfortable on the drive home, it was a painful hour.

Coming home is ok the 2nd day but sitting in a seat in the car for more than even 20 minutes is going to be real uncomfortable, if your husband has a high pain threshold maybe he can do it. I was even on painkillers, but that didn’t help. If you have room to lay down across the back seats or a station wagon or equivalent vehicle in which he can lay down, great! Have padding for the seats or floors and a blanket or comforter, it would really help.

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I have a couple of very soft pillows/cushions permanently in the car for this very reason. Also under "might happen or might not..." When driving, try to avoid roads with speed bumps - or any bumps. I pee every time.

Edited to say.... I love how you're headed to 50 replies. This is a great thread cause it give us guys a different perspective & brings out a lot of "I wish I knew before..."