It sounds like at her age, ur already telling her what she understands. I have 3 grandkids and they didn't know much about ethg I went thru, However their mom was trying to keep them away from my son. So it tk a fight for him, and now I've already bn thru the diag, trtmnts, etc.. they at 1st didn't know I'd be ok as long as cancer didn't come bk. Also I had to explain to them they cldn't catch cancer. Idk what their mom told them? However they understand berrwr