I am a retired teacher, so I am here. We do have an AMAZING caregiver that comes in for 30- 40 hours a week. The VA helps us pay for his services. When help is here, I go see my 97 year old dad (who fell and broke his hip a week ago - another long story as he is not in grest health which means the hip cannot be surgically repaired) and help take care of him....and run a few errands in between. It is hard, and sometimes very lonely, but I am grateful for excellent health and help in our home. As long as my health holds out - we will keep this course and still hope the Calvary will show up.