I love your description of your granddaughter greeting you. I always wondered what my grandma name would be--turns out it is just grandma, or sometimes Miriam, which of course most people call me! My granddaughter lives 20 minutes away so see her often. We have a little garden path and the first time she walked it alone she said it was "big kid drop off"--what a thrill. You seem to know and understand yourself, and who you want to share with and when you need privacy. It can take a lifetime to figure that out--thank you for sharing here.