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why do i want friends but dont want to spend time with them.
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I’m like you. I find that going to my church has helped me in this quite a lot. Slowly, over recent years, I’ve been able to make a few friends and join in some activities. I can’t make it always, but people are concerned about me and check in with me from time to time if I can’t make it; not to guilt me, but to ask if there is something they can do, or just listen. When others just listen, I find that very helpful. All of this has taken years of baby steps. Therapy continues to help as does my psychiatrist.
It’s been hard, but worth it when I can get out.
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I am 75 and ever since I retired at 65 the only "friends" I have is my family. I put friends in quotes because family I realize is not the same as having a friend. There is only so much you can share with family. Even with family I have no desire to go anywhere. I know it affects your health mentally and physically to keep myself to myself but I can't seem to be able to take that first step. I enjoy playing cards but can't find anything that is geared for seniors in my area. Not any type of activities. The only activities that I can find are for senior living homes, which are not open to the public. I don't know if I did find something if I would make the move but I'd like to be able to choose. I admire you for taking that first step.