Elisabeth, I am sorry to hear that you are no longer in the watch-and-wait category and are now scheduled for surgery. But, as I've stated before on this forum, the surgery to remove my meningioma was not the horrible thing I imagined. And, I felt fine pretty much as soon as I arrived back home 2 days later. I know from your prior posts that you, like me, are very particular and selective about your healthcare providers and I'm sure you're in good hands. That's the crux of the matter, an experienced doctor we have trust in and a good hospital.

Ice packs can be helpful. I have 6 in my freezer to rotate. Good luck and stay strong!