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What are your tips for staying independent at your own home?
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After my husband died I was distraught. Naturally I was told I need to be around people. So I visited two places that offered "independent" living. They were okay as far as they went, but they did not go far enough. The apartments were tiny. I would not be able to bring anything of my own. I understand why. They don't want you to stay in the apartment but constantly be with others. I don't mind being with others for short periods, but I do like my alone time, and I need the space for my computer and books. So, even at the age of 90, I am living in my own home with my own things. I am in pretty good health. I drive. I cook. I do my own laundry. I have a housekeeper who comes in every 3 weeks to do the heavy cleaning. In short, except for being a bit older than the rest of you, I am fine.
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Oh my goodness. What a beautiful inspirational story for ME to read at this time. You are my new guide and angel for the rest of my life. I’m 80. Since February that number has nearly been the devastation of me!
Through this group I am learning to change my ATTITUDE!
My husband died 2 years ago. After 54 years of marriage! Which started my negative attitude. I Felt my death come forward immediately, and
seemed like no purpose at all in my life!
I have as of today quite an improvement in my life and attitude. I’m so excited to get started with the rest of my life now❤️
I know I will lapse sometimes but I hope I’ll be able to pick myself up again each time that I lapse.
It’s going to take lots of discipline and hard work for me. But I pray that each and every day… ME
and my ever present ANGELS will strive to be a healthy, positive, loving and whole person again.
Grateful for this site always❤️
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Fantastick job, Marilyn!
Keep up the great work. You're my new hero (heroine???).
/L