Thank you so much for your kind words. I've had dogs and cats in the past, and no, I don't want to take care of them now. I'm flat out of nurture. 17 years of teaching elementary school and then caring for my husband has depleted my cache for now. I do have a house plant named Roxy. I am evolving as a life partner but also as a person. I so appreciate you and all of the people who take the time to share on this site. It has been so helpful and uplifting to me when I've felt depleted. I've reached acceptance of the situation and have no doubts about moving my husband into professional care. Now, I am working on my own health and finding small treats and surprises to bring to my husband to brighten his day. People can do hard things.