Ever the contrarian... Letters (and e-mails) are the illusion of communication. We write because we are afraid of the confrontation, so we devise a one-sided onslaught and then feel justified. But that justification often grows into regret. If you are truly interested in rebuilding the connection, you will have to talk a little and listen more to the other person. That is the problem with letters. In my experience they just serve to inflame a person because the recipient cannot respond immediately and misunderstandings simply linger or worse, they grow.

Mom always said do not make something into to something it is not.

Good luck in managing your disease.
Best always,
s!