How very well spoken. I, too, have Viktor Frankl's book; it is well worn and it is time to get it out again. I have been quite concerned about a reaction of my daughter to a situation concerning me - until I realized she is entitled to her reaction, whatever it is, and, similarly I'm entitled to my response to my circumstances. I do not have to adopt her concerns, listen to them, yes, but not let them become my outlook on my circumstances.