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Hi @daughterofpatient22, I thought I would check in to see if you have learned more about the options available to your father. Have you been able to discuss treatment options and/or transplant with his cancer team? How is he doing? How are YOU doing?
Being 82 myself and having been diagnosed with a malignant lesion in my left kidney in March of 2023 I can sympathize with you and your father. The urologist said that only a total nephrectomy of that kidney was the treatment. But I decided last year that because of my age I did not want to go through the long recovery from the surgery and the unknown problems that could result from the surgery and how the remaining kidney would function at my age. Instead I have decided on immunotherapy with Keytruda. I have had seven treatments with some side effects including severe skin rash; another eleven are planned. I also had to have five high dose radiation treatments to stop bleeding from the lesion; there has been no visible bleeding for last three months since the last radiation treatment. I can't really offer any advice, but I do understand how difficult it is to make the right decision especially when one is in his 80's. The only thing I can say is that for me my decision up to now has allowed me to do the things I want to do and not being burdened with a long recovery from surgery and unknown result; and how much longer would the surgery really give me as to a quality life. I have some days where I don't feel well, but others that are good where it's just great to be alive while I take my daily walk, breathing in the fresh air, feeling the sun on my face and listening to the birds singing. That's the way it has been for the year and half since my diagnosis when I chose my path. The future will take care of itself. I hope you make the decision that is best for you, and I hope that it helps to know that there are many of us in the situation and understand and support in fighting a terrible disease.