My father was emotionally abusive angry questioned me and other family members over and over. My first husbands online porn addiction falls under domestic violence so I got domestic violence services and treatment. My mother was the enabler the rescue person. My maternal aunt was abusive to her adoptive children. My mother's first cousin was molested by another family member yet it was shoved under the rug. Not surprising she died of uterine cancer..My paternal grandfather was hit in the head developed epilepsy became abusive. My paternal grandmother got an order of protection against him divorced him raised 3 children in poverty. I emerged from illness with a seizure risk . I accused much debt getting my life and health back. My father tried to force his way into my apt angry because a creditor called him. At the time I had paid all fees for a chap 13 bankruptcy but not to be filed for another 4 months. When my father did this my anti seizure medication was being tapered under medical supervision. He put me at risk for a seizure. So he was taken to court and he was issued an order of protection by me . My taper was completed successfully. I have been seizure free for over 10 years. My eeg is a breach rhythm now abnormal but non epileptic. Transgenerational trauma is heart
breaking. Do have or find any peace with your situation? What happened to you was not your fault. Your son needs all the help he can get. I hope and pray there is an answer. Sorry for my typos. I type to fast. Is there anyway you can get help or therapy for yourself?