Yes, I think that they just want us to go away and stop kvetching. It is frustrating and were it not for this group to at least share and be understood, I for one would feel far more alone than I feel. Trying to explain to friends why I "look fine" (well, on Zoom and in person on rare times out) has nothing to do with how I feel. I'll be curious to hear what the post-C specialist has to say on Monday - if he has any new resources for me.