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Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Oct 22 6:25pm | Replies (35)
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Replies to "Thank you, Sue! It's sad to hear your mom never forgave you for getting her license..."
I actually bought a car without a license. (Long story from about 40 years ago.)
I financed it through the dealer, too. Apparently they didn't care whether I ever drove it, just so long as I paid for it.
We still had a loving relationship - she only got mad when she remembered about it.
Good luck with Dad - one thing you might suggest is that Mom find a neighbor willing to be his paid chauffeur when he "wants to go" - maybe someone living on just their Social Security who might appreciate a little cash. Then he is "helping someone out" as well as giving Mom a break.