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Dad won't let go of driving

Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Oct 22 6:25pm | Replies (35)

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@gingerw

@heartyrainbow My first reply disappeared. My experience is that giving up driving is one of the last vestiges of independence. It seems to affect men more than women. My mother had dementia and became fearful of everything. She stopped driving about 8 years before she passed.

My dad did not have dementia, but slowed reflexes to things. He finally realized accidents in the parking lots, and close calls on the road, were his doing. He turned his license in and sold his car at age 93. He passed at age 96.
Ginger

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Hi Ginger, thank you for re-posting your reply!
My dad still thinks nothing's wrong with his driving, and my stressed-out mom started saying she sometimes feels she just wants to hand him the key. We need to take action before something happens.