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PAIN : Narcissistic partner, struggling to cope as I am leaving.
Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: Oct 7 5:47am | Replies (11)Comment receiving replies
redtulip54, take one day at a time. One day. And find things to engage in. Be selfish. What is something you like? Does it involve other people? Church? Where can you go to make friends? You need to believe the truth. And the truth is that instead of looking back (and focusing on the few good days you are glamorizing) you left for a reason. Now focus on going forward with your life. Every day you survive going forward is going to help you see things more clearly, and you can choose something better for yourself. Or run back to misery. You can do this.
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Thank you baa. I am trying and now it is to go through morning, then till lunch, till evening and the nights are the worst. I try to study. I took up some online courses at a university. I started last year before I left him. I try to keep up, I did an assignment before I left. I find I can't concentrate but I try. Thankfully, we don't have a child together. I always regretted not having one with him, but now I think it is a blessing may be, I don't know... I hope one day I see it very clearly and if I see him accidentally, my heart might twitch a bit, but then it will tell me You are in a good place now. That's my dream.