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To move near family or stay put

Aging Well | Last Active: Sep 30 8:46am | Replies (77)

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@beckboop13

Love your advice. I took care of my mother, and it affected my health for quite a long time afterwards.

I know the children well, but it gets old and tiring, and I don’t want to have them go through that. Even though we wouldn’t be in their home, it is too much and too hard for us to move.

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I have a different problem- 2 adult children and their families states away from me and each other, both advocating for me to move near them. Here I live in a starter home we never left- one floor, I have my brother and sister-in-law nearby. We’re close and help each other (mid 70’s), my health is good.
I know choosing one to move near to will cause a lot of hurt feelings and possibly upset between the two, anybody else dealing with sibling rivalry still? Guess I should be happy I’m popular 🤣