Be aware of who is around you, in the store or any place public. If you are speaking to a friend, and share information about your husband's passing, someone might be listening.
When you take your car in for servicing, remove the registration and insurance documents from the glove box, plus any other personal identifiers. Give only your car key to the service department.
The first thing to do when you get in your car is to lock the car doors. Likewise, when you unlock your car, open only the driver's door, not all the doors.
Remove all throw rugs in your house if possible, to help prevent slips or falls. Use small nightlights at key spots, like bathroom near the floor, kitchen counter, near the doors. Do you have pets? Make sure you collect/pick up their toys each night before bed, so you don't trip over them.
My father lived in a senior apartment complex. He raised the American flag each day. If it was not up, someone would check on him. Likewise he had severe hearing loss, and could not hear a smoke alarm. They installed a flashing light to indicate the smoke alarm after he burned toast and never heard a thing. The manager used master key to get in and make sure he was okay.
Ginger
What good suggestions! I am very careful about not mentioning my husband's passing in public places. I do watch whose around where I am. That's why I go shopping so early because the "shady" people don't seem to be around at that early time or at least, not so much.
You are so right about not leaving personal items in the car when it's being serviced and only giving the key to them.
I have no throw rugs and no pets. I have night lights handy.
That's too bad about your father not hearing good. It's nice that he had a good manager in the apartment where he lived. Good for your father raising the American Flag every day! I live in a mobile home park and the only American Flag out is mine. Unfortunately, the world has changed and not necessarily for the better.
Thank you for your good suggestions!
PML