Prior to my surgery, I was told to stock up on pads and underwear. Fortunately, I experienced NO incontinence issues at all! However, at first I wore Depends night defense to bed every night and the first couple of times I went out. They were very comfortable- they felt no different than wearing regular underwear. I agree with James comments. Best wishes! It’s almost a year since my RP and still undetectable PSA!🙏🤞