PCa Provides a before and after chapter to my life story. The first 6.8 chapters (68 years) featured a fun loving, caring, family guy. This chapter, the last 3.9 years, features a caring, and being cared for, loving and being loved, guy whose family care for him, worries about him. My PCa bumper sticker would read "Advanced Prostate Cancer , Somedays are better than others, keep trying the best you can."