@mariesa1 you sound like you have a lot going on! Have you started a journal of your health problem (s)? It helps for you to track of everything! When you see new doctors, you will have all the answers written down! I started 5 small notebooks, one for each speciality. That way I was able to keep medical problems separate and have a notebook to take to appointments!
Do you have a physician for your general health, like your osteoporosis and possible ascites in pelvic area?