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Overreactive behaviour

Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Sep 23 5:08pm | Replies (9)

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My mother-in-law told me that when my husband was an infant any loud noise upset him. He would even startle in the crib when someone folded a newspaper.
He's nearly 81 and was diagnosed with Alzheimer's five years ago. He has a good disposition and is appreciative. Loud noises throw him and he's not able to identify them. Lawn mowers, construction equipment, power washers, a pot clanging in the kitchen, all cause for alarm. Everytime there's a noise like that he cries out, "What's that?" and I have to answer. It does get tiring after a while, but I always tell myself it could be worse.
He hates the rain too, like it's his personal enemy. Everytime it rains I have to listen to "Look at that gd rain!" Good luck with that. We live in one of the rainiest places in the US!

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Very much the same. Noises, especially from the kitchen - dropped pot lid, silverware going the floor, send him into a panic. I try to get ahead of it and announce the event as it's happening, since the sound itself is not something he associates with the event. It is tiring - so much is tiring- even more so because it's Groundhog Day: he'll have the same reaction every time, over and over. But he's sweet and not angry and never complains. It could be a lot worse.