This sounds very difficult and discouraging for you. It is somewhat reassuring to read loriesco's reply and I hope these awful side effects diminish soon.
I am scheduled to have my first Reclast infusion this month and I am really hesitant and anxious. I've tried for many years to avoid this but my most recent scan scores clearly show that I need an intervention. Due to a blood protein issue, I can't use the anabolics, which I was hoping for as many of the comments reflect the benefits of managing the dose, unlike the Reclast infusions.
I hope to hear that you feel better soon.