Your penis shrinks as you age simple fact. If you have chronic ED then it will shrink even faster. See the correct dr. meaning a dr. of sexual medicine not just a urologist .. start using a VED with his approval and then figure out if oral meds or shots will be the first step in dealing with it. I have 9 years on you age wise. Started of the aging journey normally till a stroke in 2022 stopped all erections and lost my libido. Tried the shots to no avail, and the pills. I used a VED for 6 weeks before my penile implant surgery. I had a Rigicon mallable penile implant put in 6-2023 one of the best decisions I have made in my life. Good luck to you do something besides come on here and talk about what you don't have. Help is available to you and others ..