Hi @deb2024, welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. You're definitely in the right place to converse with other women who have bladder cancer. I also felt like I was one of the only women with BC, and a young woman at that. Age 52 at diagnosis. I also have high grade T1. In fact, I'm going tomorrow for my cystoscopy. It will be 3 years this coming November since my diagnosis.
I'm not happy we have this disease, but glad there's a place we can go for info and to "meet" others in our same situation.