Again, not trying to turn this into a porn thread but I found a picture taken about 6 months ago (don't judge me, my FWB then asked for it). I was in the bathtub and snapped a pic for her. After I found that, I got in the tub... same amount of water, same state of arousal (none), and same everything. Made sure the angle was right and the phone was about the same distance away. First pic, you can see it laying comfortably against the inside of my thigh. Second pic, wouldn't even reach the inside of my thigh. Went to change clothes this morning and noticed it was so withdrawn it looked like a scrotum with a button on top. I actually had to push my fingers in to pull it out and it was still barely visible then. Yet, I am told this is normal? So, this is how I live the rest of my life? About 3 weeks ago, it managed to get hard enough for sex but she had to lay on the edge of the bed and I had to stand beside it to even have intercourse, and then barely got in. Forgive the crudeness but I just cannot believe this is normal and I can't imagine being 61 and sex basically being over..... There is an "Add Photo" button below but I will refrain from that. Wish I could find someone to show these pics to that knows if this is normal or not, but I guess that makes me weird.... And again, no visible or diagnosed medical issues other than slightly elevated BP, labs always come back positive and just don't take any meds. Well, at least I am single so there is no woman to disappoint but that means I won't be looking for one because I don't want to disappoint her. It just pretty much sucks!