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@ray666

Good morning, everyone,

What grates deep down inside is less having to watch hired others do major tasks in my stead, like cleaning the gutters or replacing sprinkler heads, but minor, domestic, reoccurring tasks, like hauling our week's trash from our back door through the garden to the alley barrels. Not too long ago, that was a domestic task I could do without giving it a second thought. Nowadays, however, with a large fiber neuropathy making straightforward walking over the bumpy ground a feat worthy of not only second thoughts but maybe also even third and fourth thoughts, I find I have no choice but to 'stay out of the way' while my partner hauls the trash to the alley. I feel awful. I'm told I shouldn't feel that way, but I still do. I can't help it.

Ray (@ray666)

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You are old enough to remember the old song "To Everything There is a Season..." - yesterday I am sure my husband had to dig deep to ask our daughter to help him lift the 75# storage battery in and out of it's box on the trailer tongue - it sure bothered me when I had to have my nephew haul and dump the water softener salt this summer! Even my 50-something neighbor with a bad back has to grit his teeth and prod his 16yo to mow lawn.