Pray to God for help in your decision. Put everything in God's hands. He will be there to direct you as to the best way to proceed. He knows of all your needs and your daughter's needs. It states that in the Book of Matthew. Also pray for your daughter. She must be terribly scared with all of this happening to her. Just talk to God like he is your best friend and he is. Ask him for help in this very stressful time for you and your daughter. Then, have faith and relax and expect a miracle!
I will be praying for both of you too!
PML