Thank you for your post. I guess it does boil down to what we (I) want our last days to be like. Your words state it plain and simple. It's a decision I have been avoiding for a number of years. I keep thinking I'm younger than I am. Turning 75 in two weeks seems like that's someone else. It is time to go home and see those I love, in person, and be there around for more than 2 weeks every couple of years. Thanks again for your lovely post. I will be moving home again.