Hi! angiemal:
I am so sorry for what you've been through; however, I truly admire your loving spirit that cares for others!
As life throws curve balls at us along the journey of life from time to time, we - each and every one of us - have different case scenarios and stories to tell; so please do not let whatever happens to others frightens you too much. I know this is easier to say than done... I have no wisdom to share, my friend; but I'll keep you and your lovely daughter in my thoughts and prayers, pray that the gracious Lord guide you, protect you and comfort you directly from above. I am sure you and your precious daughter shall have a long loving journey to share happiness together!
Wishing you & your daughter, and everyone in this journey many, many healthy and happy years to come! Smooth sailing ahead!