thanks for your comment! I hope you are doing better now!
I went to the tmj specialist today and she said the same thing the dentist said, that I suffer from bruxism which causes this "jaw discomfort", she suggested trying a splint which I am very skeptical would help, I wonder if I should see a neurologist even before trying the splint and if the neurologist would take me serious since my symptoms are not visible to people and does not cause difficulty eating/talking, but when i close my mouth in a resting pose my jaw spasms and my tounge goes backward involuntary.