@sra2

Glad you found Mayo Connect, and not sure can give definite answer, but can advise. You need to have trust in your providers, and if that is not there, you can ask for another provider.

I did once in urology, but not for surgery. After seeing a provider who I though was dismissive I called the appointment coordinator in the area, explained situation and asked for another provider and they scheduled me with someone else. They must of put a note in medical record, because the next nurse commented on my request. I had much better experience with new provider.

Sometimes surgery is very specialized, their might be only a few options and also other surgeons may not be available in time frame. My sister wanted specific surgeon she had seen before and they honored her request, but delayed her surgery. In her case, it was not urgent.

My suggestion, call the section and ask for a consult with another surgeon, be honest, tell them you do not have confidence in first surgeon and want 2nd opinion, or whatever reason you want to share with them.

Would you care to share what section are you being seen in and reason for surgery (please do not share surgeon's name)?