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Mixed Dementia and Alzheimer’s

Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Aug 25 11:15am | Replies (9)

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Thank you so much for this.
I am looking for a variety of care options now that I have accepted the reality of her condition. As her only child, she has been my confidant and best friend. She was the nanny/grandma to my sons so with all of her support to me over the years, my issue in getting help has been my reluctance to accept her condition.

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It’s a gradual thing I think. Over time, it was clear that the person we knew was very different. I recall the day that I went to visit her in Memory Care. She normally became very excited and happy to see me. But, this day she continued with her activities, as if I was just another visitor…..it does something to you. I thought I was prepared, but it still stung. I introduced myself and we had our visit. I still believe she knew she was loved and cared for, even though she wasn’t sure who we were exactly. I realize I’ll face this again with my Dad, if he survives his CHF and CKD.

It’s good to have things lined up, because sometimes things progress quickly.