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Hello @meg4434 I am Scott and it is nice to e-meet you here. I am glad you found Connect. Here you will find you are not alone in this journey.
Nursing home laws very by State and what each home offers in the way of services can vary greatly.
Sadly mobility can be a difficult factor in dementia patients. It frequently continues to degenerate as the disease continues. When it comes to PT-OT again, it will vary by facility, but rarly, in my experience, is it offered when a terminal disease is in the advanced stages. As to hiring an aide, that again will depend on the facility. I have seen some very costly ones which still require aides, and the have to be paid in addition to the facility cost.
I wish I had some insights into family dynamics when it comes to caregiving, but all I can say is 'speak up for the patient' and if possible encourage your husband to do likewise with his sister. You may also want to get HIPPA authorization so the facility can share care information directly with your husband at least.
Continued courage, strength, and peace!