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The word "Survivor."

Breast Cancer | Last Active: Sep 10 2:49pm | Replies (52)

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@dlmdinia

As another poster stated, breast cancer does not define me. It's just another one of life's many challenges. (Stage 3 for reference) I would never use the word survivor. If I die of something other than BC, I will be a BC survivor. I used to participate in Race for the Cure (no longer run in my area). If I did participate in one today, I would not wear the shirt or hat or pin or even pink. It's personal, it's private, it's irrelevant except for when it's not such as checkups, etc. I'm not a warrior, I'm not courageous or strong. I simply take that first step and put one foot in front of the other for everydays ongoing challenges. I'm just me living my life as best I can.

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I love your comments and share your sentiments.
In addition to survivor, I dislike the expression "battling cancer". It seems to me that cancer fights us. For some, no matter how hard they "fight", cancer takes over. We fight through the treatments, as harsh as they often are, and hope for the best. We try to take care of our bodies by eating well, exercising, etc., but we don't know, if those things will stave off cancer. It seems to have a mind of its own.
I don't think of myself as fatalistic, but realistic. Carpe Diem!