Mental health, do Dr.s know/care how bad our QoL is?

Do doctors/ therapists even know what QoL means for us "head cases"
Why did my neurologist, laugh, then diagnose me on the spot with Conversion Disorder, when I showed him a video clip of me involuntarily violently jerking in my chair and walked like I was like I was drunk. He asked why are you grabbing the chair (😱🤪), because I was trying to stay upright. I could not stop the jerking and it physically hurt and scared me some. He said "Oh, I didn't know you suffered with child abuse, as when you were young." It's not a sentence I will ever forget. The more I denied it, the more it looked like I was lying. I was devastated and choking back the tears, I quickly got out of his office. I am proud of myself just for just leaving...or he might have gone home with a black eye. He then had the audacity to put the diagnosis of Conversion Disorder in my file, so every single person who opened my file, this was one of the first things they saw. Conversion Disorder can be related to many issues, but by far most believe it is only due to childhood trauma. I saw that neurologist for 15 years, for only Botox for migraines.
I had to look it up cuz I didn't know what it meant. Holy S., then I saw super pissed at him. I finally got my psychiatrist to put a note (he's not allowed to remove another dr.s notes. But he told me that, it's actually against the law, in CA, to do what the neurologist did. In CA , a psychiatrist and a doctor, both must agree before making that diagnosis.
This discussion started with the statement below , authored by jania59. When I first read it, it really hit me in my gut. It is TOO true and thought, if we shared honestly, we might say/hear something simple to help each of us. If we share, we may say/ hear something simple that will be negative to us.

"Mental health has been pushed to the very back of progress in healthcare. There have been several campaigns to increase access, support, and melt the stigma away ".

I thought jania59 was more eloquent in her message, than I ever could be. The stigma of having mental illnesses, leads some outsiders to really hurt us, even if just with their words and ignorance of mental illness.
There are many many people who have mental illnesses or even just challenges. I have felt pre-judged by every new dr. I have had. It hurts me and it feels like it affects what type of treatment I will get from a Dr. When a Dr. blames depression for my itching, that dr. goes on the idiopathically ignorant list. Why is my depression instead of my pSS(primary Sjögren's syndrome) autoimmune disorder ignored.
I guess I should feel lucky in an odd way, antidepressants and anxiety medications have never ever worked for me, all I got was the horrible side effects. But at least another dr. does not see a list of psych meds, cuz they can't blame my problem on the "head meds". I am not against meds, if they benefit someone. My younger brother might well have lost his life without the meds, an exceptional psychiatrist, and support.
I'm am looking forward to learning from others, how you are feeling and what has been your experience in this quagmire called mental health. Jania, thanx for letting me share your thoughts with everyone.
Shelley W