I agree. I find I’m in a better place to feel like I’m loving myself more in order to heal. That way I’m a winner whether it heals completely or not. I feel like survivor is a medical term they use for statistics…not to be pessimistic. They said that to me after the surgery, yet I’m on my third round of chemo. Maybe I’ll feel more like a “survivor” in 5 years if it doesn’t come back?!