The problem I see is that my husband wants to do what he wants to do and not always what I want which can make him angry. He wants to remove all the gravel from the side of the house and put it in the garbage can. I just keep distracting him or walk away hoping he won’t do it.
Like many it is getting more difficult. Things I am grateful for he showers, dresses, does the dishes, garbage, fills up the Keurig, napkins etc. Anything he does is less for me to do. I cry for the beautiful man I love so much and have to be strong like he always was for me.