Thank you for sharing this. I told my husband the other day that when you're pregnant with your first child there are books like "What to Expect When You're Expecting." There are classes for new mothers that provide actionable steps on the "mechanics" of taking care of an infant. When your loved one (in my case my father) is diagnosed with dementia, the doctor asks "do you have any questions." "Um, yes. How much time do you have?" I wonder why doctors don't at least recommend titles like this. It doesn't look like my library has it. I'm sure I can find it on Amazon. Thanks again!