Sundowning is becoming a real issue now as I care for my husband. I hear lots of caregivers speak of it but wonder if there are any techniques that help. It varies from day to day but my hubby can get angry, agitated about any little thing. Or, he may start talking about a topic and devolve into meaningless (to me) jabbering. The worst is when he asks me questions that I'm not quick enough to make up an answer to. I don't know works sometimes but sometimes he insists that I do know and wants to know what's wrong with me. Sometimes I can turn the conversation to another topic and other times it indicates to him that our marriage is over. ( I'm hearing this much more frequently these days)

I'm shedding more tears these days and just taking one moment at a time. (Forget one day at a time)