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Bones, Joints & Muscles | Last Active: Aug 15 10:55am | Replies (61)

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@celia16

Yes, I agree. I have encouraged her, along with her primary, but my mom has diagnosed extreme anxiety. She is also stubborn and prone to ignore advice. I can’t see it happening.

My mom has severe reflux and has had bleeding ulcers. Constantly reports esophagus issues, but eats all the wrong foods that aggravate her condition. It’s frustrating. She’s been this way her entire life . I buy and prepare healthful and nutrious meals and snacks, but they rarely interest her. She’ll eat things and then complain how sick she feels. She always says she wants good health, but she doesn’t follow through. I’ve suggested talk therapy, but she refuses. I’ve done all I can at this point. I encourage her to get treatment, drive her there, but can’t make her follow recommendations. It’s frustrating.

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Oh please believe me, you are not alone. I turn 70 this year and if life has taught me one thing, it's that I have no control over others, none whatsoever. That knowledge is a good thing. But when the signs are obvious, and that sounds like your Mom's case, it's extremely frustrating.

Sometimes the best thing you can do for your own sanity and peace is to practice letting it go, knowing you have done all you could. Just because our loved ones choose misery doesn't mean we need to follow. It's still hard, but you'll probably sleep better. I know I do, but it's taken a lot of practice - and talk therapy!