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Oh please believe me, you are not alone. I turn 70 this year and if life has taught me one thing, it's that I have no control over others, none whatsoever. That knowledge is a good thing. But when the signs are obvious, and that sounds like your Mom's case, it's extremely frustrating.
Sometimes the best thing you can do for your own sanity and peace is to practice letting it go, knowing you have done all you could. Just because our loved ones choose misery doesn't mean we need to follow. It's still hard, but you'll probably sleep better. I know I do, but it's taken a lot of practice - and talk therapy!