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Hi Celia,
If a surgeon has recommended a hip replacement for your Mom, it's a good idea to get it done.
I understand having a relative (in my case, sister-in-law aged 73) being reluctant for replacement surgery. But hip replacement, while still a significant surgery, is relatively straightforward, compared to the knee for example.
If your Mom isn't having other problems, and she needs or wants to get around without pain, the hip replacement is the way to go. I don't know what other issues she may be having, but if you trust the surgeon, I'd encourage the replacement. Her gait is likely affected by the pain, and if not corrected, that can cause other problems.
Easy for me to say, although I have had both knees replaced and love the results (I was 67 when I had the surgeries).
All the best to you and your Mom.
Joe
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Yes, I agree. I have encouraged her, along with her primary, but my mom has diagnosed extreme anxiety. She is also stubborn and prone to ignore advice. I can’t see it happening.
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