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Hi! Was in the same position! Had planned to get a dog in 2023 but diagnosis, surgery, chemo and radiation got in the way. Was afraid to move forward but with encouragement from lots of folks (and plan for sister or niece to take over if ever needed) I took the plunge in March and have great standard poodle puppy! Am so glad I have her! Will be honest I still worry about leaving her but the joy she’s brought has helped with stress and worry about a recurrence. Something joyful to focus on. Go fir it and enjoy them!!!
You’ve put into words what I have been heading towards, thank you!
It’s the back up plans that are so important including training them (and me!) well so they are socialised etc so can go to doggie day care and I can easily rehome them (heaven forbid) if the worst came to the worst.
I came through massive treatment unbelievably well. My issues don’t affect my life so far. I can’t do the long runs I used to though, maybe one day, but I can walk far and wide. There are also huge parks within walking distance from my house, including off leash parks, so once they’re ready I can let them go crazy together!!
Thank you - I must stop letting cancer control and limit my life and make back up plans😊