Hey Steve. Welcome and at the same time sorry that you have to join our brotherhood. We are here for you.

I’m not a medical professional, just a two-time prostate cancer patient so please don’t construct anything I say as medical advice. I am just sharing my personal experience and opinion.

If I understand correctly, you’re starting a new teaching position next month. Congratulations! My wife was a schoolteacher for many years, so I appreciate the starting in Fall and finishing in Spring timing of things. Its just my opinion here but if I were in your shoes, I would ask my care team to do a decipher test on my pathology to determine how aggressive the cancer is and whether or not I have to have a sense of urgency in dealing with it. If the decipher test comes up with a high number showing an aggressive cancer you certainly may need to act sooner than if it’s a low or intermediate number. Unless your cancer is aggressive, you might be able to safely hold off on treatment until the end of the school year.

I’ve gone through low dose brachytherapy, surgery and radiation and understand the impact on daily life for each of the three treatment modalities. If you have a favorable Gleason 7, (3+4 instead of 4+3) and a low decipher score low dose brachytherapy might be a good option for you assuming that you can have it done at a center of excellence with an RO that has successfully done thousands of these procedures. Regardless whether you would choose to have this treatment now or at the end of the school year, your downtime would probably be less than a week assuming you’re in good health otherwise. For the record, my brachytherapy was not successful due to an underestimation of my Gleason score and a bad biopsy, but I still like the concept of brachytherapy for low risk cancer. I know several men that had the procedure low risk and have been cancer free for well over a decade. I don’t believe that it’s the best option for intermediate or high risk PCa.

You also may want to look into a procedure called HIFU. The surgeon that did my salvage pro tech to me also performs that procedure which also has a quick recovery time and a high degree of success for low and intermediate grade localized PCa. Again, you need to seek care at a center of excellence. My surgeon also does HIFU so if you’re in the Chicago area and need a recommendation, I’ve got one for you.

Based on my experience if I had to do over and had a received a decipher score showing aggressive cancer, I would’ve opted for surgery as my primary treatment. I would’ve bit the bullet on recovery time of about six weeks with the long-term goal of staying cancer free for the rest of my life. That’s the prize; staying cancer free for the rest of your life. That should be your top priority!

If you opt for radiation, you’ll likely have to go for 30 to 40 sessions five days a week so you have to consider the impact on your day-to-day activities while you’re teaching. You will also have to show up with a full bladder and an empty rectum. Try planning that each day on top of a school day! Additionally, you’ll likely experience fatigue after a few weeks as well as urinary urgency. Getting a good night’s restfull sleep might be challenging. You might be a lot tougher than I am, but I wouldn’t even consider going radiation while teaching.

This brings me back to my original point, if you have a low or intermediate decipher score you and your care team can decide whether or not it’s prudent to wait nine months until the school year is done to act on your treatment plan.

Best wishes for success for you for whichever treatment modality you choose.

stevenp -- I think robertmizek really hit a very key unknown in your decision; the aggressiveness of the cancer. I suggest taking his advice for a decipher test to help remove some of that uncertainty. That said, my contribution to your question will focus on your concern about recovery time of the surgery option. I'm 70 and reasonably fit (but not excessively so) at 5'11" and 187 lbs, and I had NS RALP (at a cancer center of excellence by an excellent doctor) 5 weeks ago.
My recovery after surgery has been quick and easy. I had a catheter for a week, during which I greatly limited my activities to minimize penile soreness from the catheter. I religiously followed my doctors instructions to take over the counter pain meds for about 5 days. During that time, the pain never was worst than a 2 on a scale of 1 - 10 with 10 the highest.
Once that week was over and the catheter was out, I felt really good and every day I felt a little better. I was told for 6 weeks after surgery I couldn't lift more than 10 lbs and no bicycling for 3 months, but "normal" day to day activities were fine. I never had any incontinence but I still wore a depends for 1 day, then switched to pads for about 4 days, and then I simply went back to normal underwear. I also have a large pad on my side of the bed under the sheet, just in case. Even though I never was incontinent (except for a couple accidents as I figured out a few things), things do "feel a bit different". For example, with my prostate gone, I urinate like I'm 30 years younger. So when I step up to a urinal, I need to be ready when I "relax" as it starts to flow instantly. No pause like when my old prostate needed to relax before flow started. That's the kind of thing I mean about things "feeling a bit different". It took me a couple weeks to gain confidence that I wouldn't have an accident. If I had still been working at my desk job, I believe I could have gone back to work in 2 or 3 weeks after surgery, although I'd have probably worn either a depends or pads just as insurance. Also, since I was retired, I never discussed with my surgeon how long he would have required before he would have signed my release allowing me to return to work. I did do Kegels for about a month before surgery and resumed them after the catheter came out, so that may have helped my recovery. Bottom line, pretty much 3 weeks after surgery I was effectively "completely back to normal" except for no lifting more than 10 lbs for 6 weeks and no bicycling for 3 months. I don't have normal sexual function yet, and I think that'll take longer to recover (if it does). But that doesn't affect your concern about returning to work. I'm not trying to convince you to have surgery as I really have no idea what's best for you. Rather, I just wanted to share with you my experience of what recovery after surgery was like for me. My only other comment is that selecting your treatment plan is a "big deal". If you can afford to do so, I'd really recommend picking what you think will be best for you rather than which will speed your return to work. Just my 2 bit opinion. Best wishes to you and yours.