@naturegirl5 Hi Helen, YES i get that compliment often. For years I was even id at casinos because i looked 18 at 30. I'm a short lady 4"11 and a healthy weight. Like you, i think it has to do with genes, in that regards I think that we are very lucky, 😊.

Back to our Big C issue, if i was in my 80's i wouldn't be giving this so much thought but in my 60's and two young grandsons it scares me a lot to miss on their future lives too soon.

I will keep hope up, check ups and stay as healthy as possible 🙏
Thanks for your kind words, it helped me feel good and your advice helped me too. Take care of yourself and good luck to you and everyone else here looking for info or a word of comfort....i read almost all the posts. Regards, irma