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To move near family or stay put
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I agree with @celia16 While it is nice that your children would want you to be near them I don't think they realize the benefits of being around people of your own age and the friendships you have made. I personally would not leave a place I am happy in no matter how far away my children are. I am sure their motivation is out of concern, and love, but that is up to you. Of course, any medical problems or loss of a spouse or partner might change your mind.
You will know when to make a move. I have seen too many of my senior friends (I am 83) do exactly that and many have some regret.
FL Mary
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That is what I am afraid of. They have a busy life and a 14-year-old, last summer spent a month in France. Right now. they are visiting another country for a month. Also, considering a year abroad with their son .Doesn’t make sense to me.
The intentions and Love are good, but I don’t want to really change what isn’t broken. Thanks.