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Preparing to Age in Place

Aging Well | Last Active: Oct 21 10:18am | Replies (357)

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@SusanEllen66

@edsutton I seem to remember answering this question awhile ago. Back then, my future looked bright but things have quickly made a turn.

We never know when our plans will be disrupted and mine have been hijacked by several diseases at once. The worst, Alzheimer’s dementia has thrown my future off sideways, and around the corner! Figuring out where I’m going to spend my last years is a heart wrenching decision. So is the thought of spending all my money for my care.

My faith tells me that I am in the gentle hands of my Savior, Jesus Christ. He is guiding me through this as He always has for everything. He will heal me whether it’s here or in the glorious future. Amen!

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@SusanEllen66 Life is never predictable! I'm sorry you're facing the diagnosis of dementia.

Faith in God, thankfulness for his love and care, meditating on the Word, and having peace are proven to have positive effects on many prognoses. I don't want to think where I would be without those things.

I encourage you to continue practicing your faith. The old saying is still true - Prayer Changes Things.

Having hope isn't denial. It isn't helpful to pretend that nothing is wrong. I see in your message that you already understand that. Trusting in God for the outcome increases our peace of mind in this life. Anticipating an eternity with a new body is worth celebrating!

A song from a children's musical about King Jehoshaphat came to mind. A prophet told him, "Don't be afraid. The battle is not yours, but it's God's." And another phrase from the Bible has been helpful to me during times of uncertainty and anxiety - Fear not, for I am with you.

Blessings to you.

Jim